Friday, April 23, 2004

:: the frailities and vulnerabilities of friendship ::

how u measure the value of friendship? time? compatibility? common interests?
i guess most of the time, when u are asked about a certain friend of yours, u would say: "i know so and so for XX years, we go together frequently and do alot of stuff together."

true. but often. how well do u know ur fren? as in sure, u know whats he's like, how well he treats his friend, gf and pple all around. BUT to know that friend as in understand him /her completely? well, most guys i guess (including me) dont know their friends THAT well? its all on the surface i suppose. with time, of cos u do get to know someone somewhat better, but to know someone's innermost feelings. its hard i suppose?

maybe certain friends can do that. as in close buddies. i dont deny that. but then if u circle of friends consists of a few more people. perhaps chances of knowing someone that well is kinda limited? hee.

few factors can really test friendship. a main factor for guys is girls. typical huh? girls .. i dunno. have to hear from u all ba. have heard alot before, movies, tv too.. oh, jus saw a sort of short movie on channel 5, about stella huang and her bf and his buddy since primary school. lot of stuff goin on, but, end point, she cheated on her bf for his best friend, causing him and his bf to got into a fight and subsequently end their endship. heee.. classic example ya? but then i guess its drawn from everyday lifes ba. it does happened.

dont wanna say that much. but i got involved in something like that? well .. was nt really affected. cos firstly, i know the friend for awhile and he, when emotionally affected, will say some stuff that he doesnt really mean it?(another point of view is that these thoughts are always present just that normally u dont blurt it out unless u damn drunk or emotionally charged) secondly, truth is maybe i dont really feel that close to him. ya. good frens is good frens. but when it comes to matters close to ur heart. different thing ba.. so im OK. hee. i pretty aloof to these kind of things now. cos of age? or a realised sensibility i suppose after what has happened.

thru that .. i got to understand 2 person in a certain depth i guess. funny its only in this kind of situation u kinda get to know them better. cos ure not involved in their conversation at all, and i think the common notion is that thru a conversation with someone, then u get know them better. hee. my view anyways.

oh well. suan le ba~

p.s : hows that for my long-o-theory. keke.


Friday I'm In Love
by The Cure

i don't care if monday's blue
tuesday's grey and wednesday too
thursday i don't care about you
it's friday i'm in love

monday you can fall apart
tuesday wednesday break my heart
thursday doesn't even start
it's friday i'm in love

saturday wait
and sunday always comes too late
but friday never hesitate...

i don't care if mondays black
tuesday wednesday heart attack
thursday never looking back
it's friday i'm in love

monday you can hold your head
tuesday wednesday stay in bed
or thursday watch the walls instead
it's friday i'm in love

saturday wait
and sunday always comes too late
but friday never hesitate...

dressed up to the eyes
it's a wonderful surprise
to see your shoes and your spirits rise
throwing out your frown
and just smiling at the sound
and as sleek as a shriek
spinning round and round
always take a big bite
it's such a gorgeous sight
to see you eat in the middle of the night
you can never get enough
enough of this stuff
it's friday
i'm in love

wen|ong @ 10:31 PM
Parting is such sweet sorrow,
That I shall say 'Good night' till it be morrow.